Sunday, April 29, 2018

@21:31, 4/29/18

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Fashion & Style

Laura Pucillo, Varun tej Gonuguntla

The bride and groom, both doctors, met at the St. George’s University in St. George, Grenada, from which each received a medical degree.

Sooner is better.   As soon as you can is best.

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Fashion & Style

Nikita Saxena, Aditya Kalluri

Nikita Saxena and Aditya Kalluri, both medical students in Boston, were married in a Hindu ceremony at Sri Chinmaya Maruti Temple in Andover, Mass.

Sooner is better.   As soon as you can is best.

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Fashion & Style

Christine Hu, Stephen Barchick

Christine Hu and Stephen Barchick, both Harvard grads, met at an alumni gathering in Los Angeles, in 2014.

Sooner is better.   As soon as you can is best.

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Fashion & Style

Mythili Prabhu, Akhilesh Pathipati

The bride and groom, both doctors, met at Harvard and are married at the Hayes Mansion, a resort in San Jose, Calif.

Sooner is better.   As soon as you can is best.

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N.Y. / Region

Girl Dies and Mother Is Shot After Attacking Officers, Police Say

Police responding to a call found the 2-year-old unconscious. Her knife-wielding mother attacked two officers, and was shot, the police said.


There is no information beyond the police report.

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Fashion & Style

Eleanor Seavey, Gregory Fortier

Eleanor Seavey, a brand manager for the National Football League, and Gregory Fortier, a screenwriter, met at George Washington University.

Sooner is better.   As soon as you can is best.

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Fashion & Style

Taylor Dickinson, Andrew Cordeiro

The couple who both work at Goldman Sachs met at Vanderbilt University, from which they graduated.

Sooner is better.   As soon as you can is best.

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Fashion & Style

Christina Ramelli, Winston Tseng

Christina Ramelli and Winston Tseng, who met in 2010, were married at an event space in New York.

Sooner is better.   As soon as you can is best.

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Fashion & Style

Nicholas Hovsepian, Robert Postotnik

Nicholas Andrew Hovsepian, a real estate agent, and Robert John Postotnik, an art director, were married at the Plaza Hotel.

Sooner is better.   As soon as you can is best.

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Fashion & Style

Madeline Cronin, Matthew Aaronson

Madeline Cronin, a manager for thredUp, and Matthew Aaronson, who works in product marketing, were married in Brooklyn.

Sooner is better.   As soon as you can is best.

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@8:55, 4/29/18

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1
Fashion & Style

Judith Graves, Maryellen Madden

Two septuagenarians, a retired economist and a lawyer, get married at Christ Church in Philadelphia.

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Fashion & Style

Kristen Lappas, Russell Dinallo Jr.

Kristen Lappas and Russell Dinallo work in New York as feature producers at ESPN, where they met.

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Fashion & Style

Carmen Collyns, Matthew Heiman

Carmen Collyns and Matthew Heiman met almost eight years ago at J.P. Morgan in New York.

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Fashion & Style

Lauren Katzberg, Noah Einstein

Lauren Katzberg, a founder of a technology company, and Noah Einstein, an emergency medicine resident, were married in Austin, Tex.

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Fashion & Style

Christina Ramelli, Winston Tseng

Christina Ramelli and Winston Tseng, who met in 2010, were married at an event space in New York.

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Fashion & Style

Nicholas Hovsepian, Robert Postotnik

Nicholas Andrew Hovsepian, a real estate agent, and Robert John Postotnik, an art director, were married at the Plaza Hotel.

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Fashion & Style

Lauren Paris, Daniel Jorgenson

The couple met through a mutual friend in New York in December 2011.

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Fashion & Style

Christine Hu, Stephen Barchick

Christine Hu and Stephen Barchick, both Harvard grads, met at an alumni gathering in Los Angeles, in 2014.

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Fashion & Style

Jordan Myers, James McGinnis

The bride and groom met at Harvard while studying for their law degrees.

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Fashion & Style

Stephanie Rolin, Azi Paybarah

The couple met through the dating app Bumble, and had Belgian waffles for their first date, while sitting by the fountain at Lincoln Center.

Sooner is better.      As soon as you can is best.

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@19:13, 4/28/18

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Times Insider

When The Times Goes Tabloid

During a strike in 1978, eight Times photographers found work in the parks department. Skip to 2018, those photos tell a universal story of summer.

editing is necessary.

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Opinion

Trump: Our Cartoon Nobel Laureate

Let’s ponder two unimaginable but not impossible things: Trump winning the Nobel Peace Prize and a second term.

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“And expecting him to be different or less crazy only makes us the crazy ones. His behavior gets more outrageous, out of control and florid as the pressure on him persists. And it’s only going to get worse.”
That’s comforting."

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Crosswords & Games

Mis-Unabbreviated

Peter Wentz’s puzzle is in the home run department.

Blank slate.

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Opinion

Did I Choose the Wrong College?

It didn’t make sense to sign up for debt. I did it anyway.

I can't know.   It does not sound like it.

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Style

‘Behold Death, Darkness, Chaos and the Void’

D.I.Y. metal music has spawned a tightknit community of headbangers in Queens.

Meaningless noise is easy.

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Opinion

The Extinction of Gay Identity

An all-star Broadway revival raises the question: Does being gay mean anything anymore?

Gay is part of an hyphenated reality.

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U.S.

Trump Calls on Montana Democrat to Resign in Fight Over Failed V.A. Nomination

President Trump lashed out at Senator Jon Tester, the Democrat who helped thwart the cabinet nomination of Dr. Ronny L. Jackson.

Dr. Ronny L. Jackson will not head the V.A.

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Business Day

At Nike, Revolt Led by Women Leads to Exodus of Male Executives

Complaints about bad behavior by men and a lack of advancement for women long went ignored, employees said, but now change seems to be afoot.

Power is shifting.

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Business Day

Tom Brokaw, in Email, Angrily Denies Harassment Claim

The newsman said he was “angry, hurt and unmoored” by allegations from a former correspondent at NBC News, which were detailed in reports by The Washington Post and Variety.

Make people proove their claims.

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Podcasts

Listen to ‘Dear Sugars’: The Ghosted Stepchild — With Theo Pauline Nestor

The relationship you have with a stepparent can be difficult, no matter your age. In today’s episode, the Sugars answer letters from stepchildren.

I need to know more.

It would be an involuntary relationship.
Such can work.



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@11:38, 4/28/18

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1
Opinion

How a South Carolina Prison Riot Really Went Down

We need to hear from prisoners about the conditions they’re living in.

The guards are not in control of the prison.
Control is threatened by individual profiteering guards.

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Fashion & Style

He Saw a Future Right Away. She Did, Too (Post Lasik Surgery).

The couple met at the University of Pennsylvania, from which each received an M.B.A.

Sooner is better.  As soon as you can is best.

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Real Estate

For a Mess Made by a Few, Many May Be Punished

When some residents are sloppy in the trash room, a co-op board threatens to fine everyone on the floor.

Examine the garbage.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m57gzA2JCcM

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Fashion & Style

Work Colleagues, Friends, Then Something More

The couple met when both worked at SpaceX, but didn’t begin dating until he gave her his SpaceX watch with the promise that she would return it.

Sooner is better.   As soon as you can is best.

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Style

Confirm or Deny: David Duchovny

The “X-Files” star may or may not have schooled a royal on booty calls.

The play, not the players.

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Admin

Our 10 Most Popular Recipes Right Now

Potato-and-radicchio tart, grasshopper brownies, and more recipes for the weekend.

I can cook or if you wish, you can cook.

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Style

‘Behold Death, Darkness, Chaos and the Void’

D.I.Y. metal music has spawned a tightknit community of headbangers in Queens.

Make it sing.

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Business Day

How to Talk About Moving to a Retirement Home: ‘It’s a Journey’

Having a conversation about moving — whether it’s with a relative, even a spouse — brings up lots of anxiety. Here’s how to go about it.

Certainly not yet.

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U.S.

Pennsylvania Congressman Who Settled Harassment Case Resigns Amid Ethics Inquiry

Representative Patrick Meehan, who had already announced he would retire, said he would pay $39,000 to reimburse the cost of a settlement paid with taxpayer funds.

Resigned but undefeated.

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U.S.

To Catch a Killer: A Fake Profile on a DNA Site and a Pristine Sample

Investigators used DNA gathered at a crime scene and created a fake profile and pseudonym on a genealogy website several months ago, according to law enforcement officials.

The data base is public.
The police are part of the public.
I would not like the reports to be admissable as evidence.



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Saturday, April 28, 2018

@16:00, 4/28/18

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1
Opinion

Why Trump Supporters Don’t Mind His Lies

Even when they know the claims are false, they can imagine how they could have been true.

It seems a trivial point.   False arguments must be refuted in detail.

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Fashion & Style

He Saw a Future Right Away. She Did, Too (Post Lasik Surgery).

The couple met at the University of Pennsylvania, from which each received an M.B.A

Sooner is better.    As soon as you can is best.

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Fashion & Style

Work Colleagues, Friends, Then Something More

The couple met when both worked at SpaceX, but didn’t begin dating until he gave her his SpaceX watch with the promise that she would return it.

Sooner is better.    As soon as you can is best.

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Real Estate

For a Mess Made by a Few, Many May Be Punished

When some residents are sloppy in the trash room, a co-op board threatens to fine everyone on the floor.

"The abandoned trash may hold clues, like discarded mail with a name on it. “Get the super a nice pair of gloves,” said Daniel J. Wollman, the chief executive of Gumley Haft, a property management company. “I know it’s a little disgusting, but if they want this to stop and they want to catch who’s doing it, someone’s got to sort through the trash.”"

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Opinion

I Want to Be Rich and I’m Not Sorry

Money would make me powerful, someone nobody could hurt.

Go for it.

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Admin

Our 10 Most Popular Recipes Right Now

Potato-and-radicchio tart, grasshopper brownies, and more recipes for the weekend.

I will cook.  Or you can cook. 
If you want me to cook a dish you must communicate.
We can share the cooking if the rolls are understood.

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Fashion & Style

Love, Not War, Resonates for Two Activists

The couple, both heavily involved in antiwar and social justice causes, fell in love at first sight.

Sooner is better.  As soon as you can is best.

Life is social.   Work is solitary.

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Style

Confirm or Deny: David Duchovny

The “X-Files” star may or may not have schooled a royal on booty calls.

The roll is the thing . , .

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Opinion

Please Stay, Justice Kennedy. America Needs You.

Your departure right now from the Supreme Court would have dire consequences for the country.

I do not want a more reactionary supreme court.

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Opinion

The Most Unpopular Dog in Germany

Munich is full of remarkably well-trained dogs. My dog isn’t one of them.

You may have another dog.  
I am willing to be beta to your alpha.

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@0:42, 4/28/18

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N.Y. / Region

3 G.O.P. State Senators to Retire, Raising Democrats’ Hopes

Three Senate Republicans in New York have announced that they will not seek re-election in the fall, including two venerable incumbents.

Political power is addictive.
Its maintenance does not trend toward the public welfare.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Zombie

The industrial cities are the walking dead.

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The Upshot

Why a City at the Center of the Opioid Crisis Gave Up a Tool to Fight It

Providing unused needles to people who inject drugs is an idea that has struggled to gain acceptance, in West Virginia and throughout the U.S.

A political problem.

"The mayor is in recovery himself — an alcoholic, he says, 24 years sober — and father to a son who has struggled with heroin addiction. He argues for prescription heroin, saying it should be provided to people where it can be used safely under supervision. He just wants those services far from Charleston, and definitely far from the new civic center. “I understand recovery,” Mr. Jones said. “I’m in it myself, and I believe in it. But I don’t believe we have to destroy a city over it.”"

The image and the reality conflict.

Image has won in Charleston.

More will die expensively. 

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U.S.

Hart Family, Before Driving Off Cliff, Hid Dark Home Life From View

Weeks after Jennifer Hart drunkenly drove a sport utility vehicle off a cliff, killing her wife and their children, newly released documents detail disturbing allegations of neglect.

Everyone cannot be rescued from themselves.
I am sorry to know these details.

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Business Day

When Headphones Get in the Way of Office Communication

A new colleague needs to communicate with the team throughout the workday. Unfortunately, she’s always wearing headphones, making simple interactions awkward. How can you break the sound barrier?

The office exists to enable casual communication.
Working from home is not an option.

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Books

Stories That Look Askance at the American Midwest

Malinda McCollum’s debut collection, “The Surprising Place,” reveals the darkly comic underbelly of Des Moines.

There may be some fantasy in her book.

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Obituaries

Polixeni Papapetrou, Photographer With an Eerie Eye, Dies at 57

Her photographs often featured her own children in startling costumes, but the most attention-getting one involved no clothes at all.

I would have liked to see what she did next.

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Business Day

For Cancer Centers, Proton Therapy’s Promise Is Undercut by Lagging Demand

Hospitals and private investors keep pumping vast sums of money into an advanced type of radiology whose effectiveness, in many cases, has not yet been shown to justify its price.

It is a specialized tool.

Gather data. 

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N.Y. / Region

How Jonathan Goldman, Professor and Musician, Spends His Sundays

The Joyce expert and Latin soul bandleader spends weekends with his family composting, making music and pancakes, and reading obscure books.

A busy guy.

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N.Y. / Region

They Revealed Harassment Claims Against a Professor, and Were Disciplined

Two women at Fordham University who told fellow students that a professor had been the subject of sexual complaints were censured by the school for “dishonesty.”

There will be more reporting.

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The Learning Network

Word + Quiz: apprehensive

This word has appeared in 67 articles on nytimes.com in the past year.

fearful of possibilities.

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