I am completely serious. Action will not get any easier for me until death resolves my a domestic situation. I find that I can act at this point but need an explicit invitation from you before I call on my siblings and say "Your turn."
A quiet meeting on "neutral ground" could easily resolve all doubts.
Your words, if they are not such an invitation, will be closely attended to.

It was you in front of the Forrest Avenue Stop & Shop. I am very sure. You were dramatically unwilling to be accosted.
Thus I did no more than nod in passing. Shock does strange things. I am still reeling. HCH