http://query.nytimes.com/search/sitesearch?query=DOMA&more=past_365

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Defense_of_Marriage_Act

See also

• Baker v. Nelson
• LGBT rights in the United States
• Marriage Act
• Marriage Protection Act
• Same-sex marriage in the United States
• Same-sex unions in the United States
• Religion in the United States
• Separation of Church and State in the United States
•  

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/LGBT_rights_in_the_United_States

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/LGBT_rights_in_the_United_States#Military_service

Nothing here.

http://www.factcheck.org/archives/search-results/?cx=000672474746801930868%3Aa87hh_euyka&cof=FORID%3A11%3BNB%3A1&ie=UTF-8&q=DOMA&sa=Search

A hearing on the bill.   PDF

I did a Google search:

"family benefits for military"    

http://www.military.com/NewContent/1,13190,Spouse,00.html

Looks gender neutral.

http://www.military.com/news/article/dod-no-spousal-benefits-for-gay-partners.html

DoD: No Spousal Benefits for Gay Partners

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March 03, 2011

Military.com|by Bryant Jordan

Regardless of the Obama administration's decision not to defend the law defining marriage as heterosexual union, the U.S. military won't be extending spousal benefits to same-sex couples, the Defense Department says.
Pentagon spokesman Col. David Lapan said the federal Defense of Marriage Act remains on the books and the military will continue to follow it after repeal of Don't Ask, Don't Tell is fully implemented.

"Basically DOMA remains in effect [for the military] unless Congress repeals it or a court action strikes it down," Lapan said.